its all about the sex...no matter what anyone says...why do women or men cheat...for that euphoria feeling you get when someone new pays attention to you..with a slight touch he can send shivers up your spine...you feel beautiful, special, and all that...and for a man..he feels wanted and not taken for granted..
see its hard to maintain that initial feeling of lust and love..but for me...its been about 15 years and I am 33 so mind you I went from young girl to a woman in her prime..we went through all stages..I even must admit that I was sooo tempted to cheat...but I came to my senses..thank God because I could have lost everything..we have 4 children together and nothing is more important than that....
anyways....you need to keep that spark..you need to treat your husband like another woman will if they had just met..you know what I mean..the way you would treat each other if you just started dating..also...look good...fat or skinny it doesnt matter..just look sexy a few times a week...
and most importantly....SEX...GREAT SEX....ALOT OF GREAT SEX..LOL..4real!!! WITH TOYS...LOTS AND LOTS OF ADULT TOYS....IT WORKS..YOU WILL LOVE IT..HE WILL LOVE IT...
If you have some toys already and their old...throw those out and buy the new interesting stuff...
good luck...and please your partner in bed....OR SOMEONE ELSE WILL...sounds harsh...but its reality...